Every one out there (including myself) will tell you how to live every aspect of your life. Every parent will tell you how to raise your kid. Every married person will tell you how to build your marriage. If you're married every "single" friend will tell you what you're missing. If you're single every married friend will quickly tell you how empty your life is.
Well I'm going to do it again but in a good way!
No one knows what your life is like. Best friends may have a good idea, bur no one but you knows your whole story. Therefore only YOU know what's right for you! If you keep your eyes open and have a realistic view you should be alright. Also if you are not mature enough to accept all possible consequences for your actions, chances are you aren't mature enough to make serious decisions in the first place.
There was not a single person in our lives that supported the choices Matt and I have made in our relationship. Every bend in our road was filled with nay-sayers saying some really terrible things at times. I won't go into details cause I'll just get upset but I'm sure you can imagine what people would say to two 22yr olds who got pregnant and married in the first year of their relationship.It caused us a lot of pain but never once made us doubt our decision, all it did was let us see our "family" for who they really were.
If you're not prepared to lose friends and family over your life choices then you're not ready to go through with them.
But, if you know in your heart that it's right for you, then hold your head high and enjoy every night in the bed you've made. If people really love you they will realize they were wrong and come back to you, whether you accept them or not is up to you.
If however your choices were wrong you need to be able to eat that crow and deal with all the "I told ya so"'s.
I hope you all make the right bed for yourselves, and promise to keep my judgments to a minimum.
Stay Tuned
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